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Don’t ever think you know there is everything to know about sex. No matter what you know and practice there is always going to be small things you haven’t learnt yet. I’m sure you have better things to do with your life than trying to learn everything about sex so when you can learn a new tip it definitely doesn’t hurt you,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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4. You can’t rush that first kiss with a new girl. You have to make sure that the girl is willing to go for this kiss. If she looks nervous and fidgety then it might not be the right time to go for that first kiss. This might be a good time to give her some space.
5. I would not recommend French kissing on the first date unless you know the date your on is only meant for one thing. Other than that French kissing should be saved for the last or next date.
6. Girls hate when guys shove their tongues down their throats and make it impossible for them to breathe. Therefore you as a guy have to be careful to keep it comfortable for the girl. Remember your sharing a very intimate moment so if you make it uncomfortable the feelings will be gone out of it real quick.
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Issues, however, do become challenging when friends are not on the same page with what the friendship means to them. Or when the friendship becomes threatening to the committed relationship.
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But the point is,By mohan mittal See all Articles by mohan mittalGet Updates on Writing ToolsGet Updates on mohan mittal Average: 2 Your rating: None Average: 2 (1 vote) Tweet In this free email course and chose to apply rather than dismiss them. suppressed free businesses,
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It is easier said than done, society and minority rights come before individual rights, and doing business. in between the safari and the rapids ride. this cocoon would allow me to handle the very public nature of this crisis, take the time off. nazi-style discipline and rules. They look great together. I asked Monica to tell me more about the philosophy of Goddess Inspiration. The president of ABC News does not make social calls to employees’ wives at 7 a.
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Some of the main ones are: * Injury Lawyers 4U. People with genuine causes to make a claim shouldn't be worried about what people will say if they make a claim for compensation. Directions: Layer your fruits with yogurt and enjoy this low calorie snack.
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continually improve on what we're doing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Life is casual.
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I would like to invite you to find time to laugh at least three times every day Start by standing in front of a mirror Place your index finger on the tip of your nose Push it back and up slightly While holding it there stick your tongue in and out at a rapid pace If you would like to turbo-charge this activity tell your friends about it and make it your “salute” that you all would use to accompany handshakes and hugs (with discretion of course.some of the world just doesn’t quite get the humor conversation quite yet.but I’m working on that)
Years ago I had the privilege of doing some “humor therapy” training with CW Metcalf I won’t be so dramatic as to say that it saved my life but it certainly did change it I learned to be less serious I learned to let go of perfectionism (Well at least some of it) I learned to lighten up And that my friends is the power of consciously breathing and smiling through humor Furthermore your mood and energy are contagious and that can’t help but leave others feeling better as well
If you need more of a jump-start with your humor then I would suggest clown noses and Groucho Marx glasses (I keep large quantities of both in case any of my clients have emergencies) They are great to get you breathing deeply smiling and laughing They will help you to be more “human” at least as the word truly means Make it as important and regular as brushing your teeth
And yes this will carry you along even further on your journey of Stress-less Success Author's Bio: What is the purpose of your journey? Author's Bio: You end up spending long hours working (or at least thinking you're working) when in reality you're really accomplishing nothing. How much more certain of your goals and decisions would you be if you were able to give every one of them your full,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Creative Writing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], have a special perception or feeling,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you lose clarity
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Let go the crooked thoughts and be honest to yourself and to attain more heights in life. Gain more recognition from others, You might also want to send a brochure that will interest them, family background,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], selecting patterns to flatter your features and bring out your personality might prove to be tricky.
too. Please know that I'll only pass along things that I think are really worth it.By Pamela Bruner See all Articles by Pamela BrunerGet Updates on EmpowermentGet Updates on Pamela Bruner Average: 0 Your rating: None Tweet There's a wonderful Forgiveness Telesummit going on this week
So how do I know when to start coming back?
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workshops, it’s unsettling when, again. MD See all Articles by Intent. Mine did too.
I've included some excerpts as I wrote my way into my life referring specifically to this writing task to show you what it looked like for me:
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Some of the main ones are: * Injury Lawyers 4U. People with genuine causes to make a claim shouldn't be worried about what people will say if they make a claim for compensation. Directions: Layer your fruits with yogurt and enjoy this low calorie snack.
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at the beginning of last year "fraud door",[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Alibaba the company announcement said, 2009 to the year 2010,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Alibaba complaints of fraud in international market transactions have occurred. The Alibaba B2B company commissioned a special investigation team, conducted a survey of related complaints,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], found 2009, 2010 two years were 1219 (1.1%) and 1107 (0.8%) of the "Chinese supplier" customer fraud. The shop is closed related businesses.
Binjiang court found, from 2010 September, the defendant Huang Jianhua,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Lin Xiaoqun 13 people respectively or jointly from others to buy Shanghai Lu Refrigeration Engineering Co. Ltd.,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Hangzhou Micro Computer Technology Service Co Ltd in Alibaba (China) Limited company of technology of network trading platform account.
in new network Hangzhou on 16 May, (Zhao Xiaoyan Jin Wei) reporters today from Hangzhou city of Zhejiang province Binjiang District court was informed that, Alibaba has caused public opinion is seething with indignation. At the beginning of last year's "fraud door" case,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], at present already sentenced 13 defendants were sentenced, the.
Alibaba announcement says, there is evidence that some employees of B2B company direct sales team, in the pursuit of high performance and high income, intentional or negligence caused some fraudulent companies joining Alibaba platform.
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later, the defendant released a large number of low-cost false merchandise information in the trading platform to attract overseas customers, customers to be held by bank transfer remittance to the defendant's other bank card, take the goods or non delivery way of implementing network bilk to overseas customers, successively fraud to nearly 100 clients outside. In 6 cases, the total defrauding customers outside the dollar,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], euro, Canadian dollar, Australian dollar and other foreign currency equivalent to RMB 50 yuan.
then, there have been hundreds of sales staff is considered directly responsible, the staff will be in accordance with the company system has received many processing including fire.
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Quzhou local environmental protection volunteers Dong Zheng told reporters, two days before he had once, see everywhere is the egret chicks body and broken eggs: "as the tree was cut down, the nest will all fall down."
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Quzhou local environmental protection volunteers Dong Zheng told reporters, two days before he had once, see everywhere is the egret chicks body and broken eggs: "as the tree was cut down, the nest will all fall down."
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Here are 5 things an internet entrepreneur must do if finding success and financial independence is their goal,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Establish a PMA
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Establishing your direction is one thing but determining how you will get there is entirely different. When starting an internet business it is wise to have a plan as to what you intend to market and how you will do so. Without such a plan you will likely waste much time and effort so proper planning is important when working online.
Achieving online success is something virtually anybody can do provided they are willing to apply themselves. Working online offers many benefits and advantages but it is up each individual internet entrepreneur to take the necessary actions which by the way do not require special skills or talents! Starting an internet business is relatively simple to do,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but to develop it into something that can give you financial independence will take effort and commitment. The 5 things all aspiring entrepreneurs must do as reviewed above primarily focus on the mental preparations required to grow a solid business. As easy as they may seem on 'paper' however many often find more of a challenge when actually putting them into practice. Perhaps it is a lack of work ethics or lack of business experience that makes achieving financial independence such a challenge. In either case these can both be easily overcome if your motivation is strong enough to do so!
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As an internet entrepreneur you will most likely be working a lot of the time on your own,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Without the help and support of others you will need to call upon a strong inner motivation and also maintain a positive mental attitude. Lacking a strong belief in yourself or what you are doing will make your efforts all the more difficult pushing your prospects of financial independence further away,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Being positive will give you more energy and enthusiasm and this will be reflected in the results of your work.
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It starts with a determination of what is it you want to do and why! Whether it is a passion,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], cause or desire there needs to be a motivating factor in what it is you are doing. Early on it starts with a vision of what you want which helps to establish a point or target upon which you can than channel your focus and efforts. This is your direction.
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fire officers and soldiers rushed to the scene to see, 20 car collision accident, multi car damaged deformation is serious, many people trapped.
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after the incident, Jiaxing high-speed traffic police,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], fire, traffic, medical aid and other departments rushed to the scene to rescue.
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so many automobile rear end collision, rescue as a race at the same time. In a business car, there is a man in the car after the impact of violent, trapped in the car can not move. Rescuers used a crane to be next to the car towed away, to expand the space rescue. Later, rescue workers in the premise of not to confirm the trapped caused two injuries, with great care to business car hoist crane, make men managed to escape.
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• Repeat back what you think you heard – the words and feelings.
I’m wondering if you have had similar situations, either personally or professionally. I’m guessing it happens more than we’d like to admit.
One of the most powerful lessons I have learned is that victimization tears relationships apart because we blame someone or something for the consequences of our own choices. And because fragile emotions are attached to the situation, we either avoid talking about it or we react with a foray of cut-throat attacks. And a negative spiral ensues, where we make up more B.S. stories in our minds, fight about unrelated events, and the foundation of our relationship crumbles.
The disturbing thing is that many of these short conversations have happened in our past, without the clarification, and they have caused heartache, pain, and cold-shoulderedness (I know that’s not a word but it’s a good description). For us, these conversations and the after-math, have been all about a difference, and misunderstanding, of perspectives.
You may dismiss this whole idea, delete the article,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and never give this another thought. Or you can integrate and apply this immediately in all of your communications with others. I guarantee you’ll see positive results.
I am grateful that Carol is willing to open ticklish conversations, get to the core of them, rather than having distorted perceptions fester into an oozing boil of toxicity. And there was no avoidance possible because we were travelling in the car, just the two of us – f-chosen captives.
• LISTEN. I repeat, LISTEN. The goal is to understand – not necessarily agree, just understand. Set aside your ego, emotions,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], agenda, and attachment to your own “right” way.
• Ask yourself, “Do I understand exactly what he/she means?” If you have reacted, there is a good chance you don’t understand their perspective.
Our perspectives had us in a head-lock of victimization,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Carol was blaming me for being a controlling spendthrift and I was blaming Carol for being a massive collector of useless crap.
Carol said, “At the Showcase, we can buy some Christmas presents.”
Here’s what transpired.
• Notice the negative reactive thought – before you say or do anything. Be aware of the physiological responses: flushed face, heart pounding, squinting, shallow breathing, clenched fists, tight jaw, or many other possibilities. You likely know what they are.
Carol’s perspective was that our decisions were always based on money. She felt that she could not spend money on anything unless she could justify (to me) a logical,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], rational “need” for the expenditure. She assumed that I saw her as an impulse buyer – always wasting money on un-necessary, un-needed, un-practical “stuff.”
A better thought is,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “How stupid do I look if I assume I understand, react negatively,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and destroy our relationship?”
I have found that by asking clarifying questions,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the other person is usually eager to help me understand. My courage gives them the indication that I really care about our relationship and that I want to enhance it. This process builds closeness and competence rather than distance and despair.
• Continue to ask for clarification until the other person affirms that you understand.
After our initial conversation, there were a few minutes of quiet – dastardly disturbing quiet.
With that thought in mind, I have a challenge for you, should you choose to accept it (was that a surprise?). Become consciously aware of your mental reactions to what another person says. Follow the process below so you can ensure clarity, understanding, and a stronger, successful relationship.
Money was not on my mind at all. From my perspective, I had been doing a major clean-out and wasn’t keen to start collecting again. In the office, I had kept and stored many articles, papers with notes and ideas, magazines, conference bags, pamphlets, and such. In our closet I had old t-shirts (thin enough I could see through them), holey (not holy) jeans, worn-out sweatpants, and tattered shirts. In the shop I had lumber and metal, used car parts, used nails, screws,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and gadgets,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], bits of this and that with the idea that someday I’d find a use for those things. I had let go of a whack of that stuff – to the recycling depot, thrift store, or dump. I felt good about my accomplishment and didn’t want to start stock-piling again.
You may be thinking, “What a stupid exercise” or “What a waste of time” or “Won’t I seem stupid by asking all of those questions?”
• Be courageous and ask for clarification. Prepare your questions carefully. Use phrases such as, “I’m not sure I totally understand”, “Can you please explain to me exactly what you mean?”, or “I don’t know if I’m getting what you mean.” These statements carry an underlying message that the relationship is important and “I want to understand” rather than “you are the problem.”
Neither perspective was right or wrong. The challenge was that neither of us understood the other’s perspective, and we had both made mental judgements based on our lack of understanding.
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Want proof that this works? Carol and I bought some things, had a great day of fun and inspiring conversation, and are still happily married.
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It was a good choice for us. How will a similar choice affect you?
Those two small, seemingly insignificant statements led to a 40 minute conversation of clarification, and much deeper understanding between Carol and me. And that conversation saved lots of mixed messages, frustration, mind-reading,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and confusion.
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Yongkang Jinlun motorcycle company is private enterprise, but it is registered is the nature of collective enterprises, and now want to regain "freedom" to a little trouble.
works also included in the towns (street, district) and the content of the annual examination departments.
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the new network in Zhejiang on 5 June, excited to write in the face of Cheng Zifang. At the beginning of 4, Yongkang city school cadre door to entrepreneurs for any problems, the Zhejiang Shunhu Industrial and Trading Company Mister tempted to open a mouth: "companies settled in Yongkang economic development zone is now two years, all in accordance with the provisions of plant built,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], now to the Development Zone in advance of the 1500000 set the deposit has not returned,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the is the problem I encountered!"
of Yongkang City Commission for Discipline Inspection Committee said, Yongkang private economy developed, the rapid development of. At the beginning of the year, Yongkang city leaders found in corporate research, many private enterprises in the growing process of the demand problem emerged, like land, financing and other very prominent. The government should listen to the voices, do everything in one's power to help enterprises solve the problem.
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general manager Fu Dehuai explained, when do welfare enterprises, must be anchored in Yongkang city FIMITIC name, become a "red hat" enterprises.
of course, cadres can not sit in the office, home, if can take the initiative to enterprises, service work is it right? Can be more in place?
this, "enterprise hundred cadres, make every attempt to solve the problem" this practice timely launch.
Cheng Zifang is not only the company, 669 enterprises in Yongkang recently have government personnel door, collection problem.
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Quzhou local environmental protection volunteers Dong Zheng told reporters, two days before he had once, see everywhere is the egret chicks body and broken eggs: "as the tree was cut down, the nest will all fall down."
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Donald Tsang: Hong Kong businessmen consider production lines to central and western transfer
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in April 26th, the third central China investment and Trade Fair opened in wuhan. Hongkong SAR chief executive Donald Tsang in after the opening of the "10000 companies to the west" Summit Forum on the speech. In Hongkong on 26 April, and the Political Bureau of CPC Central Committee, Vice Premier Wang Qishan this morning to attend the third central China investment and Trade Expo (referred to as "fair") and announced the third fair opens.
Hongkong SAR chief executive Donald Tsang in the subsequent meeting of the "10000 companies to the west" Summit Forum said, hope that through this fair opportunity, close communication with various provinces and ministries,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and Hong Kong enterprises can also be further transferred to to explore the feasibility of the central and Western regions. Officials have said the shadow, close economic and trade partner of Hongkong in the central six provinces, with the rise of the central region,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the west of the business process, such as the Olympic theme song,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], "We are ready"!
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Donald Tsang said yesterday, he visited a successful transfer and transformation of enterprises. The original plant in Guangdong Province, it is, and has been engaged in the original production, but in recent years, not only will the main production to Wuhan, more and is committed to opening up the domestic market. In addition, in order to encourage businessmen to consider the production line will be transferred to the central and western regions, Secretary for commerce and Economic Development Bureau in August last year and December respectively and the industry to Hunan Chenzhou and Jiangxi Ganzhou study. By in Ganzhou for example,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], more than one thousand six hundred Hong Kong enterprises set up production line there. This proves that industry transition is feasible. But also must admit, in the Pearl River Delta area of more than 50000 Hong Kong enterprises,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the successful transition of only a minority.
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One. Growing Working Capital at a rate consistent with portfolio asset allocation. Higher equity allocations should produce a higher long-term rate than income portfolios,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
The most important fundamental tenets and basic differences between the WCM methodology and modern Wall Street craziness are these:
The investment community evaluates short-term time intervals, and compares all performance to popular indices that rarely have any direct relationship to real live investment portfolios. If an investor thinks long term when constructing his investment plan, how does he justify short term thinking when it comes to performance evaluation?
It just doesn't work that way in the long run. Investing takes place in an uncertain environment with at least three important cycles working their way through time at different rates of speed. Each should have an impact on investor decision-making. More often than not, short-term thinking and impulse decision-making are ineffective long-term investment strategies---
Five. The WCM is as much a planning tool as it is a decision making model. Working capital is defined as the cost basis of the securities and cash contained in the portfolio. This approach simplifies the implementation of the asset allocation decisions that all investors should be making before they purchase security number one.
Lower prices of IGVSI stocks, for example, are considered opportunities for purchase, while higher prices are considered opportunities for profit taking.
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When the cycles converge higher, new market value highs will appear as well.
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Investors must learn what to expect from each, and at different stages of the various cycles. The cyclical focus of the WCM makes it easier to determine now the actions and decisions most likely to produce the best results later--- in terms of investor specific investment goals and objectives.
Unlike Wall Street, and most of Main Street for that matter,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the calendar has no role as a measuring device within the WCM, making the horse race mentality,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and competitive atmosphere disappear entirely.
The Working Capital Model operates in an environment of cycles rather than calendar years, and emphasizes a security's fundamental value as opposed to its market price. Market Value is used only to signal buying and profit taking decisions. The methodology has three operating objectives:
Most people enter the investment process tip first. They hear something, grab an idea from a popular blog, accept a Cramerism or some motley foolishness, and think that they are making investment decisions. Rarely, will the right-now, instant-gratification, Internet-generation speculator think in terms that go beyond tomorrow's breaking news.
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The short-term mentality thrust upon investors by the tax code, the media, and the underground investment advice community obscures the big picture and makes investing more and more difficult as time goes on. The Working Capital Model (WCM) is a long-term-thinking-only-welcome-here approach that is based in a much less frantic, but parallel, investment universe.
Three. Trading securities for reasonable profits, as often as possible. Equity portfolios should produce more capital gains than income portfolios, and mostly short term if the operating disciplines of the WCM are being observed.
In rising markets, investors second-guess their profit-taking disciplines because they exited a security too early, and strong markets often tempt the shortsighted into more aggressive asset allocations. In falling markets, just the opposite occurs. Most investment decision-making is a series of much-too-late, knee-jerk reactions to cyclical conditions that are misunderstood.
Three. The WCM does not focus blindly on short-term changes in the market value of securities, nor does it concern itself with calendar time intervals. Similarly, it does not look at cyclical peaks and troughs as either good or bad. Rather, it attempts to deal with conditions at hand in a manner most likely to achieve long-term goals.
Four. The generation of annually increasing levels of "base income" is given paramount importance in the WCM. It is defined as the total of interest and dividends produced by the portfolio, without the inclusion of realized capital gains. Income pays the bills, not market values.
One. The length, depth, breadth, and height of the various cycles are presumed to be totally unpredictable. Additionally, even though they are inter-related and inter-connected in many ways, none of them are related in any way,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], shape, or form to the calendar year.
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Moreover, networking is also termed as the mainstay for any business, as it is the best possible way of communication, since it suits all types of computers and phone infrastructures.
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social commentary in the Hongkong on 26 January,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and Hongkong Examinations Authority yesterday announced the Hongkong diploma and the British GCE Advanced Level Examination (GCE A Level) level comparison results. Responsible for the assessment mechanism, the British university and Colleges Admissions Service (UCAS), certificate and the British GCE Advanced Level Examination level comparable. 3, 4, 5 respectively E, C and a level equivalent to the British college entrance examination; and Hongkong 5* and 5**,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], A and A* level of the former ranged from British college entrance examination, the latter shall first examination held in 2012 to complete the rating. Hongkong's future into the University threshold requirement for humanity by math and general as long as the 2, but the original UCAS grade 2 English examination such as E level and below, in a foreign country at any time be regarded as "nutty" influence, go abroad to study.
Hongkong Wen Wei Po reported,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], said the authority Secretary Zhang Yongming yesterday in a press conference, authorities earlier commissioned UCAS responsible for the assessment work. He was referring to, UCAS is mainly responsible for the British university admission and institutions to provide each exam reference service,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the fraction of control system (UCAS Tariff) now covers 40 different qualifications examination, including GCE A-Level,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], IB Diploma (International Baccalaureate [IB] Diploma), the United States and Canada AP exam (Advanced Placement Programme, AP). Zhang Yongming, British university generally GCE A-Level used as admission scores reference standard, a set of control points of UCAS set,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], compare the different degree examination and can be used as a measure of the degree, college is in accordance with the specific entrance requirements.
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The societal norm for male suppression of feelings is compounded and distorted if you grew up in a dysfunctional family where it wasn’t safe to express feelings and needs. It’s easier not to acknowledge feelings that are criticized or needs that are denied or shamed. Your needs were also ignored if you took on age-inappropriate responsibilities because of an out of control, irresponsible, or immature parent. If there was abuse or addiction present, you probably grew up in an atmosphere of chaos, conflict, strict rules, or unpredictability. Self-control helped you survive,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but controlling yourself or others leads to problems later in intimate relationships.
Men who are addicts are also codependent. Their lives revolve around their addiction – whether it’s a drug (including alcohol), sex, gambling,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], food, or work – which they use to modulate their mood and f-esteem. They try to control their addiction and people around them in order to maintain the addiction. Meanwhile, they are controlled by it. Abstinence or sobriety allows them to work on the underlying issues of codependency. Recovery includes regaining autonomy and f-esteem, and the ability to manage their thinking, emotions and life problems.
Frequently,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a woman brings her partner into therapy wanting more intimacy and to get him to be more open and share his feelings. Often, it’s revealed that he’s fully capable of communicating his feelings, but instead of being assertive and setting healthy boundaries that make it safe for him to do so, he reacts to criticism and demands by fighting back, emotionally withdrawing, or endlessly placating her with explanations and apologies that don’t suffice.
Their wives may be very emotional, providing a sense of aliveness to the relationship and compensating for the numbness many codependent men feel inside. In the beginning, a man can feel powerful,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], helping a needy girlfriend or wife and giving her attention or gifts. He conforms to her expectations, while being assured that she won’t abandon him, but eventually discovers that it’s never enough to satisfy her. Sometimes, these women have mental health issues, are addicted to drugs or alcohol, or are financially desperate.
The dilemmas of codependent men aren’t talked about. Unlike women, men don’t discuss their relationship problems with friends and family. Instead, they internalize their pain. Many are in denial, suffer in silence, or become numb to their needs and feelings. They shun attention and try to do the right thing and be good sons,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], husbands, and fathers, focusing instead on making a living and meeting the needs of their wives and children. These codependent men sacrifice themselves and believe that their needs, including the need for time away from their wives, are selfish.
Codependent couples are reactive because they each lack autonomy and are emotionally dependent upon each other. Problems of closeness and separateness are typical. Couples may keep a safe distance or take turns pushing one another away to avoid the emotional intensity of becoming too close. Intimacy escalates anxiety of being hurt by criticism or rejection or being suffocated and losing themselves and their autonomy. Yet, despite unhappiness or frustration, they don’t leave and draw each other in after a conflict or separation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so as not to be abandoned.
©Darlene Lancer,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], MFT 2012
Dysfunctional Childhood
Some men end up becoming workaholics to justify alone time, but their needs for nurturing, respect, freedom, and appreciation, just to name a few, go unmet. Fear of rejection and abandonment are powerful motivators for codependency, usually because of early emotional abandonment by a parent. Consequently, the men never leave – physically – but withdraw to the safety of a f-made emotional prison. After a while, they feel trapped, controlled, and resentful. They may use drugs or addictive behavior to manage anxiety and depression, while some look outside the marriage for validation. However,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it’s not their wives that are the cause of their problem,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it’s their codependency.
Codependency and Addiction
Societal and cultural values have shamed men as weak for expressing feelings or needs,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which reinforces codependent traits of control, suppression of feelings, and denial of needs. Often they turn to addiction in order to cope.
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